Good Girl + Bad Guy = Sorrow!

So, today's post is basically directed to the Girls around.
There's something I just don't understand, no matter how long or how intensive I ever thought about it:

Why do all the nice, good girls almost ALWAYS choose the bad boys?

Why the hell are you that obsessed with guys who don't respect you like you deserve?
Guys who permanently hold you down, break your heart TIME AND TIME AGAIN?
Why are you so stupid to return to them time and time again?
You must be really masochistic! You like the pain, you like the sorrow, you love the guy who won't be by your side when you need him.

A friend of mine happened to find such a guy. He disrespects her and her needs.
He'd rather play some idiotic cardgame than help her out or go to the cinema. No, in fact, he simply does his shit without letting her know.
I hear unbelievable often that he hurts her.
But hey, if she critizises him he always tells her that she'd be selfish and wouldn't understand him.

Everytime she needs him, she needs to talk about important things, he would run away, block her off, reproaches her for being an encumbrance to him and so on.

He dumped her some days ago for she slept at a friend's (no, not me).
Yes. AT a friend's. NOT WITH a friend.
She needed to talk to somebody. He knew that somebody. And he obviously didn't want to be that somebody himself.
She did nothing wrong.

But instead of talking, he insulted her. Badly.
He's a total faggot, I can tell you. I talked to him. He won't regret things, he won't be sorry, he won't even recognize his mistakes. Fag.

Wait! Now he wants her to come back to him. For the second time. He won't even let her some air to breathe to make her decision. It's not right.
I can tell you, he won't change a bit. The situation will stay the same. He will hurt her again and again.

And in time, none of the two will respect her anymore.

So, shown this as my example, I ask you:

Why do you cling onto people who are definetly not good for you?

I can recall some girls that fell in love with me though I treated them badly.
They wouldn't let me go even now. One of them still is in love with me, which sometimes is a real pain in the ass, but that should be another story.

If you are good to them, help them out, listen to them, you will simply be 'some guy that helps her out'.
They won't remember you in 5 years in most of cases.
But if you treat them bad, they will cry for you, won't let you go and will always remember you for breaking their hearts.

I think there is something wrong. It should be the other way round.

Ah, maybe it's like Hitler and Schindler.
Count all the people who remember Hitler and then count the ones who now who Oskar Schindler was.
[Schindler saved almost 1200 Jews during the Holocaust, there's even a movie made about him - 'Schindler's List' - watch it!]

...and you really ask why Men are assholes?
Because that way pays off better than being just a good friend.
And that really pisses me off!

...This World is Rotten...